💌 Matchmaker's Parlor overview

The Matchmaker's Parlor helps you meet a caregiver or a little for a real dynamic. It is a curated service, not a dating app. The Open Floor is optional if you would also like to browse. If you've put a time zone on your Open Floor card, people on the Open Floor can see it and filter by it. A matching algorithm suggests people from your answers, and your matchmaker personally checks every suggestion before anything is sent to you.

Open it at match.caregiverbabyhub.com.

18+ only

Every member confirms they are 18 or older, and every member is reviewed by a person before they can be introduced to anyone.

🍼For littles

You answer some questions about yourself, and a grown-up matchmaker looks for someone who would be a good fit. When they find someone, you both get to say yes or no. Nobody sees your name until you both say yes.

Same account

Sign in with your usual CaregiverBabyHub email and password.

The six steps

The bar at the top of the Parlor shows where you are:

1. 📝 Apply: confirm three promises and say who you are and who you are looking for.
2. 🎟️ Match Pass: redeem a Match Pass code, or take the free Long Way In.
3. 📋 Questions: fill in the questionnaire.
4. 📖 Orientation: finish three short core courses.
5. 🎀 Review: your matchmaker looks over your application.
6. ✨ Active: you are in the pool and introductions can arrive.

See Joining the Parlor for each step.

What it costs

• The Match Pass is a one-time $20 payment, bought on Patreon. It lasts for life. It is not a subscription.
• The Long Way In is free, but takes longer. See Joining the Parlor.
• There is no free trial.

Your main-site tier changes how many introductions you can hold open at once:

Tier	Open introductions at once
Free	1
Pro	2
Premium or Nightlight	3

Premium and Nightlight members can also open the full dossier on a live introduction.

Choose how the Parlor feels

When you apply, pick a style for the whole Parlor. You can see the choice marked suggested for you.

• 🧸 Little experience: softer wording, and the matchmaker is called Nana the Matchmaker.
• ☕ Caregiver experience: plain, grown-up wording for caregivers.
• 💌 Classic parlor: the original parlor look.

The style only changes the look and wording. The service is the same.

Pages in this section

Page	What it covers
Joining the Parlor	Applying, the Match Pass, the Long Way In, the questionnaire, orientation and review
Introductions	How introductions arrive, saying yes or passing, the chat, the dossier and planning a date
Safety and privacy	What others can see, verification, reporting and blocking
After you click	Check-ins, Link Us, couple courses, anniversaries and if it ends