🛡️ Safety Hub

The Safety Hub is where you set your safeword, use it when you need to, and find the basics of consent, safe signals, aftercare, and where to get help.

Find it in the menu under 🧸 My Corner → 🛡️ Safety Hub. In little mode it's called Safety, and in baby mode Safe Safe. The page lives at caregiverbabyhub.com/safety.

🍼For littles

Your safeword means "stop." If you ever need it, tap the big red button and your caregiver will know right away. You did the right thing.

Set your safeword

1. Open the Safety Hub.
2. Under My Safeword, type a word (up to 20 characters). Pick something you'd never say by accident, like PINEAPPLE.
3. Tap Save.

You can also set it in My Account → Security. The AI caregiver respects it too: type it in a chat and she stops the scene and checks on you.

Use your safeword

Once your safeword is set, littles see a big 🚨 USE SAFEWORD button at the top of the Safety Hub.

1. Tap 🚨 USE SAFEWORD.
2. Tap ✅ Confirm. (Tap Cancel if you pressed it by mistake.)

What happens next:

• If you have a linked caregiver, they get a notification right away: "🔴 Safeword Used."
• A calm screen appears: "You're safe. 💙 Take a breath. You did the right thing."
• If you set punishments for yourself, those are cleared. Anything your caregiver sent stays, and the two of you can talk about it.

The consent checklist

Before a scene or a new part of your dynamic, go through the checklist together. Tap each item as you agree on it. A bar shows how far you've gotten. Items include:

• Everyone is 18 or older, and sober and clear-headed.
• A safeword or signal is agreed, and everyone knows it stops the scene at once.
• Hard limits and soft limits are discussed.
• Health conditions, medications, or needs are shared.
• Aftercare plans are discussed for everyone.
• Everyone knows consent can be taken back at any time, and no one feels pressured.
• Privacy and what you share about your dynamic are agreed.

The most important items are marked, and the bar turns green when all of them are checked.

Safe signals

The Safety Hub explains three ways to say stop:

Signal	How it works
Traffic light	Red stops everything. Yellow means slow down or check in. Green means all good
Custom word	One memorable word that has nothing to do with the scene
Non-verbal signal	For when speaking isn't possible, such as dropping an object

Aftercare

A short guide for after a scene, in three stages:

• Immediately after: blankets, cuddles, a drink, a snack, and staying together for 20 to 30 minutes.
• Within an hour: reassurance, coming gently out of headspace, and a short chat about how it went if you want one.
• In the following days: a check-in by text or call, since a drop can happen one to three days later.

For solo littles

Solo Little Practice has ideas for looking after yourself: keep a little journal, build a comfort space, set gentle self-rules, find supportive community, and do something grounding afterward. For a full self-care toolkit, see Looking after yourself.

Getting help

The bottom of the page always lists resources: the RAINN hotline, the Crisis Text Line (text HOME to 741741), the National Domestic Violence Hotline, and how to find kink-aware therapists.

If anything in your dynamic ever feels wrong or unsafe, stop. Use your safeword and reach out to someone you trust.