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Dynamic Builder

The Dynamic Builder is an 8-step guided wizard that walks you through setting up every aspect of your dynamic from scratch. It's the recommended starting point for new users — complete it once and your rules, kinks, enforcement, rewards, punishments, safety settings, and caregiver connection are all configured in one flow.

Navigate there from the sidebar: My Dynamic → 🌟 Dynamic Builder

Progress​

The Builder remembers where you left off. The main entry page shows all 8 steps with their status:

  • ✓ Green — completed
  • Highlighted — your current step
  • Grey — not started yet

You can navigate back to any step at any time to change your answers.

Step 1 — Role & Identity​

Set the foundational roles and vibe of your dynamic:

  • Role titles — choose presets (Daddy/Baby, Mommy/Baby, Owner/Pet, Master/Slave, Sir/Sub…) or enter custom titles
  • Dynamic vibe — choose the overall feeling of your dynamic:
    • 🌸 Soft & Nurturing
    • 📏 Strict & Disciplined
    • 🎉 Playful & Fun
    • 📜 Formal & Protocol

Step 2 — Rules​

Build your initial ruleset:

  • Load a preset level (1–4, ranging from Light to Strict) as a starting point
  • Toggle individual preset rules on or off
  • Add custom rules not in the presets
  • Set an importance level (1–5 stars) for each rule
  • Rules are grouped by category and can be reordered

Everything saved here goes directly into the Rules Builder.

Step 3 — Kinks​

Enable kinks and set their intensity:

  • Browse all 24 available kinks
  • Toggle each on or off
  • Set an intensity level (1–5) for any enabled kink
  • Expand a kink card to see a brief description before enabling it

Kinks enabled here are saved to your Kink Hub personal profile.

Step 4 — Enforcement Schedule​

Define when your dynamic is active:

OptionWhen rules apply
Scene onlyOnly during explicit roleplay sessions
EveningsAfter a set end-of-day time
WeekendsSaturday and Sunday
Certain daysYou pick specific days of the week
24/7Always

For time-based options, you also set:

  • Which days of the week are "little days"
  • The little-space start and end time
  • Your bedtime

Step 5 — Rewards & Punishments​

Configure what the little can earn and the consequences for rule violations:

Rewards — choose from preset rewards (screen time, a treat, a gift, a special outing…) and set their point costs. Add custom rewards with any name, emoji, and point value.

Punishments — choose from preset punishments (corner time, early bedtime, writing lines, device-free time…) and assign severity levels (Minor, Moderate, Serious, Severe). Add custom punishments.

These populate the Rewards and Punishments tabs in the Rules Builder.

Step 6 — Safety & Limits​

Set the safety framework for your dynamic:

  • Safeword system — choose Traffic Light (Red/Yellow/Green) or enter a custom safeword
  • Hard limits — select from a list of activities that are always off-limits, no matter what

Acknowledging the hard limits confirms you understand they won't be crossed in the dynamic.

Step 7 — Caregiver Connection​

Choose how your dynamic is structured:

  • Link to a caregiver — enter a pairing code from your caregiver to link accounts now
  • Use AI Caregiver — set up the AI Caregiver as your virtual caregiver (goes to the AI Caregiver setup)
  • Solo — manage the dynamic independently without linking

Step 8 — Review & Launch​

A full summary of everything you've configured:

  • Role titles and dynamic vibe
  • Rules count and enabled kinks
  • Enforcement schedule
  • Rewards and punishments
  • Safeword and limits
  • Caregiver connection status

Tap Launch Dynamic to apply all settings and mark the builder as complete. Your Dynamic Hub will immediately reflect everything you set up.

After Completion​

Once complete, a green banner on the Builder entry page confirms your dynamic is launched. You can still:

  • Return to any step to adjust settings
  • Use the full Rules Builder, Kink Hub, and Dynamic Settings pages for finer control
  • Jump to linked integrations: Kink Hub, AI Caregiver, Customization, Rules Builder