💗 The Living Dynamic
Your dynamic isn't a pile of separate tools. When you finish a chore or a routine, it counts everywhere: points, XP, streaks, the health of your dynamic, and the story of your week. This page covers the parts that tie your day together.
The strip at the top of the page shows what's happening now. On your home page, tap Flow Mode and it shows you one thing at a time, all day long.
The Dynamic Bar
A slim strip at the top of every page. It shows small chips you can tap:
| Chip | What it shows | Tapping opens |
|---|---|---|
| Dynamic | An emoji for how your dynamic is doing | Dashboard |
| 🫧 Mood | Your most recent mood | Tracker |
| Now / ⏭️ Next | The schedule block happening now (with its end time), or the next one | Schedule |
| 🔥 Streak | Your best current streak | Chores |
| ⭐ Points | Your points balance | Chores |
| 🧷 Check waiting | A diaper check is waiting for your answer | Tracker |
Linked pairs may also see a chip with your partner's local time. If there's nothing to show yet, the bar doesn't appear. Tap ✕ to hide it for the rest of the day.
Today Flow
On the Dashboard's Overview tab, Today Flow lays out your whole day in time order: routines, schedule blocks, chores, meals, and diaper checks. Tap an item to mark it done. At the end of the day it shows a short recap.
Flow Mode
The Flow Mode button under Today Flow plays your day, one card at a time. It opens wherever you are on the schedule right now, even mid-afternoon.
- The clock moves time-boxed things. A schedule block moves on at its end time. A routine moves on when its time window closes, so you're never stuck on a morning card at lunchtime.
- You move tasks. Chores, meals, and diaper checks wait for you. Tap the done button (for example ✅ Done! or 😋 Ate it!), 💤 Snooze 30m, 💤 Snooze 1h, or Skip ↷. Nothing is marked done for you.
- ⏸ pauses the automatic moving on.
A routine that rolls past on its own doesn't earn its points. You earn those by playing the routine through.
Day Remix
Inside Flow Mode you can reshape the day to match your mood. The choice sticks for the rest of the day.
| Remix | What it does |
|---|---|
| 🧸 Cozy | Softer and slower |
| 😴 Sleepy | Low energy, lots of rest |
| 🎈 Playful | Adds silly fun breaks |
| 🍼 Deep Little | Extra comfort moments all day |
| 💼 Big Day | Crisp and focused |
The dynamic pulse
The Dynamic pulse card on the Dashboard is the live heart of your dynamic. It shows:
- Health: Thriving, Warm & close, Steady, Needs care, or Reconnect soon
- what's happening now and next
- streaks and points
- recent moments (a finished routine, a reward, a check-in)
- your bond streak: days in a row you and your person showed up for each other
It is built only from what you actually did. If it dips, take it as a gentle nudge to reconnect, never as a punishment.
Each page's big feature
Most pages under 📱 My Dynamic have one signature tool:
| Page | Feature |
|---|---|
| Chores | Quest Board: weekly chore bingo with bonus points for lines and a blackout |
| Planner | Week Board: drag tasks between days, plus goals with milestones |
| Routines | Routine Player: a full-screen, one-step-at-a-time player with timers |
| Daily Schedule | Now & Next card and a library of day templates |
| Rules | Behavior Review: the little rates their own week, the caregiver answers |
| Journal | Story of Us: a monthly recap you can save as an image |
| Tracker | Two-tap diaper changes and a live wear timer |
The Sunday Sit-Down
Every Sunday, if your dynamic has been active in the last two weeks, you get a short note about your week with one concrete suggestion:
- Linked caregivers get it from Auntie Vee.
- Littles with no caregiver get it from their own AI caregiver.
Add the Sunday Sit-Down card to your Dashboard to read this week's note and past weeks. The card is hidden when AI Quiet Mode is on.
Auntie Vee
Auntie Vee is a mentor chat for caregivers: ideas, a second opinion, and a place to vent. She is disclosed AI software, not a person. Find her under 🌍 Our World → Caregiver → 🧡 Auntie Vee (/mentor).
- She's meant for your caregiver side. If you open her as a little, she suggests switching to your caregiver side first.
- She reads your caregiver role profile, whether you're linked, your little's name and profile, and how your dynamic is doing, so her advice fits you.
- She has the same daily message allowance as the AI Caregiver for your plan (15 a day on Free), on a separate counter. Chatting with her doesn't use up your AI Caregiver messages.
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