AI Caregiver
The AI Caregiver is a private virtual caregiver you can chat with any time — for check-ins, guidance, comfort, or dynamic management. It's built around your rules, schedule, chores, and kink settings so it always knows your context.
Navigate there from the sidebar: My Dynamic → 🤖 AI Caregiver
First-Time Setup
The first time you open AI Caregiver, a short setup wizard runs:
| Step | What you set |
|---|---|
| Name & Title | What the AI calls itself (e.g., "Mommy", "Daddy") and its display name |
| Safeword | A word that, if typed, immediately ends any roleplay or serious scene |
| Personality | The AI's tone — choose one of four styles |
| Communication Style | How the AI speaks to you |
| Shared Context | What the AI is allowed to know about you |
Personalities
| Personality | Style |
|---|---|
| 💛 Nurturing | Warm, encouraging, and supportive |
| 📋 Strict | Firm, rule-focused, holds you accountable |
| 🎈 Playful | Bubbly, silly, fun-first |
| ⚖️ Balanced | Calm and even — structure with warmth |
Communication Styles
| Style | How it speaks |
|---|---|
| Babyish | Soft, cute, baby-talk style |
| Casual | Relaxed and conversational |
| Formal | Structured and proper |
| Mixed | Adapts depending on context |
Shared Context
You choose what the AI can see:
- Rules — your current active rules
- Mood — your most recent mood logs
- Punishments — pending and recent punishments
- Kinks — your active kink profile and preferences
These settings can be changed any time from the ⚙️ settings button.
Chatting
Type a message and tap Send (or press Enter). The AI responds in real time with streaming output. Every message is saved to your chat history.
Quick-Reply Buttons
On a fresh session (no messages yet), four quick-reply buttons suggest common openings:
- "I just completed a chore!"
- "I need some comfort right now"
- "I have to confess… I was a little naughty today"
- "Good morning! I just woke up and wanted to check in"
Tap any to pre-fill the input box.
Today's Context Panel
Tap the Today button in the header to open a mini panel showing:
- Your most recent mood emoji
- Chores completed vs. due today
- Total rules count
The AI automatically knows this context and can reference it in conversation.
AI Actions
The AI Caregiver can take real actions inside the app based on the conversation:
| Action type | What happens |
|---|---|
| Create chore | Suggests adding a chore to your list — you see a confirmation card and can accept or dismiss |
| Assign punishment | If the AI determines a punishment is warranted, it automatically queues it to the Punishment Overlay |
| Update kink state | Can update values in your active kink pages (e.g., adding days to a chastity timer) |
When a chore creation is suggested, it appears as a confirmation card above the input bar. Tap ✓ to accept or ✕ to dismiss. Punishments are applied automatically — they appear as the full-screen punishment overlay.
AI Review
The AI Review panel sits above the chat messages. It lets the AI analyze your rules or dynamic settings and return in-character caregiver feedback with one-click suggestions you can accept instantly.
Review My Rules
Click 📋 Review Rules to have the AI read all your active rules and give you:
- A 2–3 sentence caregiver reaction to your ruleset overall
- Up to 5 specific suggestions (new rules to add, enforcement tweaks)
Each suggestion shows a title, in-character description, and an Accept button. Accepting a rule suggestion adds it directly to your Rules Builder. Tap Dismiss to skip a suggestion you don't want.
Review My Dynamic
Click ⚙️ Review Dynamic to have the AI analyze your full dynamic setup — enforcement type, active kinks, schedule, settings — and give:
- A summary of the overall dynamic health
- Suggestions to adjust settings, enforcement, or structure
Each suggestion can be accepted with one click and is applied immediately.
"Review My Rules" is disabled if you have no rules set yet — add some in the Rules Builder first.
Daily Usage
Your daily message count appears as a progress bar below the header:
| Tier | Daily messages |
|---|---|
| Free | 15 messages/day |
| Pro | 50 messages/day |
| Premium | 100 messages/day |
The bar turns yellow as you approach the limit and red when you reach it. The counter resets at midnight.
Settings
Tap the ⚙️ button in the header to open the Settings panel:
- Change the AI's name, title, personality, communication style, and safeword
- Toggle which context (rules, mood, punishments, kinks) the AI can see
- Enable Daily Check-in — the AI sends you a check-in message at a set time each day
- Danger zone — clear chat history, clear AI memory, or clear both
Daily Check-In
When enabled, the AI Caregiver will automatically send you a check-in message at your chosen time. The check-in references your day type, schedule, and recent logs to give a personalized greeting.
Chat History
Your full message history is preserved across sessions. The AI also maintains a memory of your dynamic, preferences, and past conversations so it can give context-aware responses without you having to re-explain things every time.
To clear the history: ⚙️ → Clear Chat or Clear Memory.
Safeword
If you type your safeword at any time during the chat, the AI immediately exits any roleplay or scene context, acknowledges the safeword, and shifts to a grounding, supportive tone. A banner notification confirms the safeword was received.