AI Caregiver
The AI Caregiver is a private virtual caregiver you can chat with any time — for check-ins, guidance, comfort, or dynamic management. It's built around your rules, schedule, chores, and kink settings so it always knows your context. And it doesn't just talk anymore: it can act — from spot rewards in chat all the way to running your whole day on AI Autopilot.
Navigate there from the sidebar: 🤖 AI Caregiver
First-Time Setup
The first time you open AI Caregiver, a short setup wizard runs:
| Step | What you set |
|---|---|
| Name & Title | What the AI calls itself (e.g., "Mommy", "Daddy") and its display name |
| Safeword | A word that, if typed, immediately ends any roleplay or serious scene |
| Personality | The AI's tone — choose one of four styles |
| Communication Style | How the AI speaks to you |
| Shared Context | What the AI is allowed to know about you |
Personalities
| Personality | Style |
|---|---|
| 💛 Nurturing | Warm, encouraging, and supportive |
| 📋 Strict | Firm, rule-focused, holds you accountable |
| 🎈 Playful | Bubbly, silly, fun-first |
| ⚖️ Balanced | Calm and even — structure with warmth |
Communication Styles
| Style | How it speaks |
|---|---|
| Babyish | Soft, cute, baby-talk style |
| Casual | Relaxed and conversational |
| Formal | Structured and proper |
| Mixed | Adapts depending on context |
Shared Context
You choose what the AI can see: your rules, recent mood logs, punishments, and your active kink profile. Change these any time from the ⚙️ settings button.
Chatting
Type a message and tap Send. The AI responds in real time with streaming output, and every message is saved to your history. On a fresh session, quick-reply buttons suggest common openings, and the Today panel in the header shows the context the AI already knows — your latest mood, chores done vs. due, and your rules.
AI Actions
The AI Caregiver takes real actions inside the app based on the conversation:
| Action type | What happens |
|---|---|
| Create chore | Suggests a chore — you see a confirmation card and can accept or dismiss |
| Give a reward | Can grant you a reward on the spot ⭐ |
| Assign punishment | If warranted, queues it straight to the Punishment Overlay |
| Update kink state | Can update values on your active kink pages (e.g., extend a chastity timer) |
AI Review
The AI Review panel lets the AI analyze your setup and hand back in-character suggestions you can accept with one click:
- 📋 Review Rules — a caregiver reaction to your ruleset plus up to 5 concrete suggestions; accepting adds them to your Rules Builder
- ⚙️ Review Dynamic — a health check of your whole dynamic with one-tap adjustments
🤖 AI Autopilot
The Autopilot is the AI Caregiver with its hands on the wheel — it runs your dynamic day-to-day, like a real, present caregiver. Set it up from Dashboard → Dynamic Settings → Autopilot (paid members also get a 🤖 Autopilot card right on the dashboard).
| Mode | Tier | What it does |
|---|---|---|
| Suggests | ⚡ Pro | Drafts caring actions for you to approve with one tap |
| Runs the day | ⚡ Pro | Runs the gentle stuff itself — check-ins, reminders, praise, up to 3 actions a day — and drafts the rest |
| Full Care | 👑 Premium & 🌙 Nightlight | Actively runs the whole day: check-ins, diaper checks, praise, reminders, and gentle consequences |
You stay in charge: Autopilot is opt-in, works only within the scopes you allow (chores, schedule, check-ins, notes, diapers, and — Premium-only, off by default — discipline), respects quiet hours, keeps an activity log both sides can read, and has a kill switch. Solo littles get the full experience too — their AI caregiver runs it.
Build little IF→THEN spells — "IF the mood turns rough THEN send comfort + 5 points" — or flip on prebuilt cards like Rainy Day Rescue. Premium and Nightlight decks can fire up to 14 playbooks a day.
🧡 Auntie Vee — the Caregivers' Mentor
Caregivers get their own AI. Auntie Vee is a warm, experienced mentor — pop into Auntie Vee 🧡 (the /mentor page) for ideas, a second opinion, or just to vent about your little. She knows your caregiving style, your dynamic, and (if linked) your little's needs, and gives tailored, judgment-free guidance.
She has her own daily message allowance (same size as your AI Caregiver allowance), and every Sunday her Sunday Sit-Down reviews your week and leaves one warm, concrete tip on your dashboard. Solo littles get a Sunday note from their own AI caregiver instead. 💌
Daily Usage & Memory
Your daily message count appears as a progress bar below the header:
| Tier | Daily messages | AI memory |
|---|---|---|
| Free | 15/day | Recent chat only |
| ⚡ Pro | 50/day | Deeper — remembers more about you |
| 👑 Premium | 100/day | Full long-term memory |
| 🌙 Nightlight | Unlimited | Full long-term memory |
Premium's long-term memory means the AI draws on a deep server-side history of your past conversations — no re-explaining yourself. A Memory panel also lets you see and edit the key facts the AI has learned about you.
Need more messages? The 💬 Chatterbox booster pack adds a one-time top-up of 100 — see Subscription Plans.
Voice
Paid tiers can use spoken replies, and 🌙 Nightlight adds a real neural voice with live phone-style voice calls — talk to your caregiver out loud, with captions and tap-to-interrupt.
Settings
Tap ⚙️ in the header to change the AI's name, title, personality, style, and safeword; toggle shared context; enable the Daily Check-in (the AI messages you at a set time with a personalized greeting); or clear chat history and memory.
Safeword
If you type your safeword at any time, the AI immediately exits any roleplay or scene, acknowledges it, and shifts to a grounding, supportive tone. A banner confirms the safeword was received.