✨ Build Your Dynamic
The new builder asks five short sets of questions instead of seventeen steps. It turns your answers into rules, rewards, consequences, a daily rhythm and a contract, then finishes on the same activation ceremony as the classic builder.
Open Our Dynamic and tap ✨ Build (or rebuild) the dynamic, the easy way (caregivers) or ✨ Build my dynamic, the easy way (littles with no caregiver). The page is caregiverbabyhub.com/dynamic/v2/build.
If you have a caregiver, they build this part for you, and then you get to look at it and sign it with a crayon! 🖍️ If it's just you, you build it yourself by tapping the answers that feel right. There are no wrong answers. 💕
Who builds
- Caregiver with a linked little: you build it, sign, and send it to your little to sign.
- Little with no caregiver: you build it and sign it yourself, in babyish words.
- Linked little: you don't build. You see Your caregiver builds this part! and a Is it ready? Peek 👀 button.
- Caregiver with no little yet: you build a draft and sign to save it. See If you're a caregiver with no little yet.
Everything can be changed later, and a row of bubbles at the top lets you jump back to any part you've done.
The five parts
| Part | Caregiver sees | What it asks |
|---|---|---|
| 👋 1 | Who you are | Their little name, your name, what they call you, what you call them, the feel of your dynamic (Soft & cuddly, Playful, Strict, Proper), and an optional name for it |
| 🍼 2 | Care stage & strictness | How little they usually are, how strict it should be (the same five levels as the strictness dial on Our Dynamic), and when the dynamic is "on": Special times only, Evenings, Weekends, Some days, or All the time, with days and times |
| ☀️ 3 | Their day | Wake-up and bedtime, what matters most day to day, potty & diapers, and daily chores |
| 🛡️ 4 | Safety & limits | Safeword (🚦 Traffic light or your own word), hard limits, an optional emergency plan, and kinks to weave in (optional) |
| 🏅 5 | Rewards & privileges | Rewards, privileges they hold and can lose, and whether the commitment lock is on (solo littles also pick the cooling-off wait) |
Hard limits become locked contract clauses, and the AI caregiver is told never to go there. The safeword always releases the lock straight away.
👀 Peek & tweak
Before signing you see what your answers made:
- A day in your dynamic: wake-up, number of chores, bedtime and strictness.
- 📋 Rules: tap any rule to switch it off or on.
- ⭐ Rewards: the ones you picked, or a few suggestions if you picked none.
- ⏱️ Consequences: tap ✕ to remove one. Gentler levels start with fewer consequences at gentler tiers; firmer levels get more. Spanking is never added for you. It has to be added on purpose.
- 🛡️ Safety (locked in the contract): your safeword and how many hard limits you set.
Sign & send
Type your name to sign.
- Caregiver with a linked little: tap 💌 Sign & send to your little. They get a bell saying their dynamic is ready to sign. Your screen waits and updates by itself. When they've signed it shows ✨ Make it official.
- Little with no caregiver: tap ✨ I promise! ✨. You go straight to the activation ceremony.
- Caregiver with no little yet: tap 💾 Sign & save for my little. Nothing goes live. Invite your little, then open the builder again to send it.
What happens when
- The strictness level, commitment lock, privileges, and any kinks you picked are set when the little signs. With a linked little, nothing changes when you sign and send: it all switches on the moment they sign. If they'd rather talk first, nothing is switched on. A little with no caregiver has them set as soon as they sign their own. Kinks are only ever switched on here, never off.
- The contract is sent with its safety clauses locked: the safeword, each hard limit, the emergency plan, and "either of us can step out of role at any time to talk as adults." A little with no caregiver signs their own contract, and it starts right away.
- Your rules, rewards, consequences, schedule, routines, chores and potty settings go live at Step 17, the same activation ceremony the classic builder uses. With a caregiver, you both open it and it activates together after a short countdown. Afterwards you get your certificate.
If your little already sent you a contract change that's waiting, the builder asks you to look at that on the Contract page first.
Prefer every detail?
The classic 17-step builder is still there, linked at the bottom of every part. Both builders save to the same place, so you can start here and fine-tune there.
Related
- Our Dynamic
- Sign your dynamic (the little's side)
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