💞 Us & Caregiver

These pages are for a linked caregiver and little, and for caregivers looking after themselves. Find them all on 🌍 Our World → 💞 Us & Caregiver. All of them are free.

Page	For
💞 Us	Both of you
💬 Direct Line	Both of you. See The Direct Line
🤝 Nursery Room	Both of you, with the AI caregiver
📊 Weekly Report	Both of you (called Report Card in little mode)
📋 Monthly Report	Both of you
🧭 Command Board	Caregivers
☕ For You	Caregivers
📓 CG Journal	Caregivers
🌳 Skill Tree	Caregivers

Most of these need a link. See Linking with your caregiver or little.

🍼For littles

Us is the special place for you and your caregiver. Answer the daily question, open love notes, and see the days you've spent together.

💞 Us

Us (/us) is the shared home for a linked pair. It has:

• Daily Couple Question: tap Answer privately 💌. You see each other's answer once you've both answered.
• Our Daily Rituals: small daily check-ins like "How's your heart this morning?" When you've both done one, today counts toward your couple streak.
• Love Notes Vault: notes you can open any time, time-locked notes, and notes saved For a sad day that open when you're feeling low.
• Relationship Pulse: a short weekly check on how cared-for you felt, how well you communicated, and how the dynamic is going.
• Your timeline and photos: your days together, milestones, and shared memories.
• Grace tokens (for the little): one arrives for every clean week. Spend one to let a consequence go, no explaining needed. Your caregiver is told, kindly.
• Long-Distance Kit: see the time where your person is, and send a goodnight.
• Together Board and the couple passport: things to do together across the network, such as cooking in Little Kitchen or a shared story.
• 🔭 Let them see where I am (for the little): share which app you're in with your caregiver. It's off until you turn it on.
• 🌊 Plan deep little time: plan a stretch of deep littlespace with a note and aftercare.

We had a bump

When something went wrong between you, tap We had a bump to open the repair room (/us/repair). It walks you through it:

1. A 10-minute cool-down. You can only skip it if you both agree.
2. Each of you privately writes your side.
3. You reveal them to each other together.
4. When you're ready, you both tap repaired 💜, and it goes on your timeline.

In the repair room the dynamic is paused. You talk as equals.

🤝 Nursery Room

The Nursery Room (/nursery-room) is a shared chat for the little, their caregiver, and the AI caregiver, all together. Without a linked caregiver, it's just you and your AI caregiver.

When a human caregiver is in the room, the AI defers to them and only fills the quiet moments.

The room is free for everyone. Only the AI's replies count toward your daily AI messages. See AI Caregiver. If you've turned on Quiet Mode for AI, the room is hidden.

📊 Weekly Report

The Weekly Report Card (/report) adds up the week: rule adherence, chores on time, bedtime kept, your chore streak, how it went, mood connections, and enforcement events. A little sees their own; a caregiver sees the little they're looking after.

The on-screen report is free. Download as PDF is a Pro perk.

📋 Monthly Report

The Monthly Report Card (/report-card) grades the month like a school report: an Overall grade, a Star subject, Little moments, and From the nursery. Premium and Nightlight pairs also get a warm written summary of the month when one is ready.

🧭 Command Board

For caregivers. The Command Board (/command-board) shows every linked little at a glance: chores done today, active rules, latest mood, how long since the last diaper check, and what needs you.

• Select littles and send them all a reminder in one tap.
• Approve everything waiting for one little at once.
• Jump into any little's dashboard.

🎛️ Comfort Remote

At the bottom of the Command Board, the Comfort Remote sends comforts into other apps without switching tabs:

• 🌙 Send a soundscape: start a Vibe sleep program, such as Drift Off or Ocean Lullaby.
• 🧸 Hide a surprise: leave a surprise waiting on the Playroom playmat.
• ☀️ Cubby note: leave a note in their Daycare cubby.

Each app's own rules still apply. If your little isn't set up in that app, you'll see a message saying so. The Comfort Remote also has controls for your little's TV. See CBH TV.

Peek shows where your little is right now, but only if they've turned on Let them see where I am on the Us page.

☕ For You

For caregivers. For You (/cg-wellness) is about looking after yourself:

• A wellness check-in a couple of times a week: energy, patience, and fulfillment, with a private note. Your trend is shown as a chart only you can see.
• A soft weather flag, if you turn it on: your little sees a small 🌧️ when you're running low, with no numbers.
• Self-care rituals, such as drinking enough water or being in bed by midnight. Your little can nudge you, and you confirm.

When your trend runs low, the page points you to The Break Room.

📓 CG Journal

For caregivers. The Caregiver Journal (/cg-journal) is yours alone. Your little can never see it, or even that it exists.

Write a free entry, or use the scene debrief: What happened, What worked, What I'd change, and how you felt.

Turn on Auntie Vee may read my journal to let the caregivers' mentor read your recent entries when you talk to her. Turn it off any time. See Auntie Vee.

🌳 Skill Tree

For caregivers. The Caregiver Skill Tree (/skill-tree) grows badges from what you actually do: bedtimes kept, courses finished, care given. It has three branches: 💗 Care, 📏 Structure, and 🌿 Growth. The Growth branch grows from caregiver courses in the Schoolhouse. Earned badges can show on your profile and in The Nursery.