Role Profiles
Your Role Profile is a rich "who I am" registry for your dynamic — your little side, your caregiver side, or both. It's the story of how you regress, what comforts you, how you like to be cared for (or how you care), and what keeps you safe.
Build yours at My Profile ✨ (the profile editor). A linked partner can view your profile, and any sections you mark public also flow to your community profile.
Everything is optional. Fill in what feels right, skip the rest.
What's in a profile
Sections are grouped by role. Littles see the shared + baby sections, caregivers see shared + caregiver, and switches see everything.
🌈 Shared sections (everyone)
| Section | What it covers |
|---|---|
| 🌈 The Basics | Name, tagline, pronouns, about me, interests, languages |
| 🔗 My Dynamic | Solo / partnered / looking, your ideal dynamic, relationship style |
| 🛟 Limits & Safety | Soft limits, hard limits, things to avoid, safety notes |
🍼 Little side
| Section | What it covers |
|---|---|
| 🍼 My Little Side | Little name, regression age, how often you're little, what littlespace feels like |
| ☁️ Slipping Little | What helps you slip into (and come out of) littlespace, signs you're regressing, deep-littlespace needs |
| 🧸 Comfort & Favorites | Comfort items, favorite stuffie, paci, favorite color / animal / show / snack / activity / music |
| 🎀 My Care Needs | Diaper preference & frequency, feeding, bedtime, naps, bath help |
| ⭐ What Motivates Me | Motivators, rewards you love, how you like praise |
| 📏 Structure & Discipline | Discipline that works (and doesn't), what acting up usually means, structure you want |
| 💗 Feelings & Aftercare | How you communicate when little, overwhelm signs, aftercare needs, fears |
🛡️ Caregiver side
| Section | What it covers |
|---|---|
| 🛡️ My Caregiver Side | Title (Mommy, Daddy…), style, experience |
| 📖 My Philosophy | Caregiving philosophy, strictness, structure offered, pace |
| 🧩 Specialties & Comfort | What you're great at, what you are / aren't comfortable with |
| 🤲 How I Care | Praise, discipline, and aftercare approach |
| 🕰️ Availability & Check-ins | When you're around, your check-in style, timezone |
| 🔎 What I'm Looking For | Ideal little, green flags, dealbreakers |
👁️ Privacy — you choose, per section
Every section has its own visibility toggle:
- 🔒 Private (the default) — only you and your linked partner
- 👁️ Public — also shown on your community profile's about page
New sections always start private. Flipping a section public updates your community mirror the next time you save; flipping it back removes it.
Where partners see it
- Your linked partner can open your profile from the app and read every filled-in section — it's the fastest way for a new caregiver to genuinely learn their little (and vice versa).
- The community sees only the sections you explicitly made public.
- The AI helpers read it too: your AI Caregiver and Auntie Vee use profile signals (what motivates you, what discipline works, your caregiving philosophy) to give genuinely tailored guidance.
A well-filled profile is a gift to your partner. The "What Motivates Me" and "Structure & Discipline" sections in particular save weeks of trial and error — your caregiver learns in one read what would otherwise take a month of guessing.