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🏠 Household

Household (caregiverbabyhub.com/household) is for people who live together, and for two littles who hold each other's rules. Open it from 📱 My Dynamic → 🏠 Household (Our Household in little mode).

A household never changes who can do what. That always comes from your link. A household only brings the people you're already linked with into one place.

For littles

This is your home page for everyone you live with. You can see the star chart, help with house jobs, and say when you're out and when you're home.

Make a shared home​

You can only make a household with people you're already linked with by a pairing code.

  1. Open Household.
  2. Under ✨ Make this a shared home, type a name (for example, "The Cozy Corner").
  3. Tap 🏠 Create. Everyone you've paired with gets an invite.

When someone invites you, a card at the top says You're invited to their home. Tap Accept 💛 or No thanks.

A household can be one caregiver with several littles, two caregivers sharing one little, or a bigger home. Each pairing keeps its own rules.

What's on the page​

Big mode, or always little​

The line at the top says whether the dynamic is on right now.

  • Tap Big mode when you need a break. Rules ease and the house goes quiet, but the tracker keeps running so nothing is lost. Tap Back to little when you're ready.
  • Couples who live it full time can set Always little instead. The page then says "We're always little" and stops asking. A break from there ends with Break's over.

Big mode eases rules. It never deletes them.

Away and home​

One tap when you leave and one when you're back. You can say where you're going and roughly when you'll be home. Everyone in the house sees it.

🧹 The house​

The jobs the house needs, like "Take the bins out." Set how often (every day, once a week, or just once) and who's on it, or leave it to anyone.

House jobs are separate from personal chores on purpose. They give no points, XP, or streaks, and a missed one never triggers a punishment.

🧺 The shelf​

A shared list of what has run out and who's getting it. Tap I'll get it to put your name on something. Stock counts come from your Gear Stash, so the shelf doesn't keep a second count.

Linked pairs get a shelf even without making a household.

All features​

The ✨ All features button (top right) holds the rest:

  • Everyone in the house: who's here, and who still has to accept
  • Rename our home: change the name and emoji
  • Star chart, side by side: each little's chores and points this week. A crown marks the goodest baby of the week.
  • What everyone's been up to: recent activity around the network
  • Always little, or on and off: how your home lives
  • Our rules: the house's rules (big mode eases these)
  • Things the house does by itself: reminders and routines that run without either of you. See Automations.
  • Repair and The Sunday sit-down (below)
  • Account-abili-baby (below)
  • Leave this household: your link and its permissions stay exactly as they are

Repair​

A private way to come back together after something went wrong. Pick what it was about (something that was said, a scene that went wrong, a rule, a promise, and so on). Each of you answers alone. Nothing is shown until everyone has answered. It earns no points or XP, on purpose.

A safeword isn't a repair. The first row in Repair takes you to the Safety Hub, where the real safeword button is.

The Sunday sit-down​

Ten minutes once a week: what worked, what didn't, and one thing to change. It keeps no streak, so it never becomes a chore. If a Behavior Review is due, it opens right inside the sit-down.

Littles and caregivers without a household still get Repair and the Sunday sit-down on this page.

Account-abili-babies​

Two littles link up, and each holds the other's rules, chores, daily schedule, and diaper checks. Neither one is the caregiver.

Pair up​

  1. Open ✨ All features → 👯 Account-abili-baby.
  2. One of you taps 👯 Make a code and shares it.
  3. The other types the code in and confirms.

You can each have only one Account-abili-baby.

You choose what your buddy may do​

The pact card shows each person's own switches, side by side. What your buddy may do to you is up to you. If one of you said yes to everything and the other to nothing, you'll both see that.

A caregiver outranks a buddy​

You can have a caregiver and an Account-abili-baby at the same time. On the same subject, the caregiver's rule always wins. A buddy can add rules the caregiver hasn't covered, never override one.

Leaving​

Either of you can end it alone. It ends 24 hours after notice, and the other person is told straight away. Only the person who gave notice can take it back. If you need everything stopped right now, use the safeword: it reaches everyone linked to you.

Real people only

An Account-abili-baby is always a real person with a real account. Nobody on this site is simulated.

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