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Household

/household is for people who live in the same house, and for two littles who hold each other's rules. It sits under My Dynamic.


Everyone in the houseโ€‹

A household can be one caregiver with several littles, two caregivers sharing one little, or a larger poly household. Each pairing keeps its own rules. The page shows everyone in the house, lets you rename the home, and has a star chart side by side so siblings can see each other's week. A crown marks the goodest baby of the week.

The page shows what everyone has been up to, and holds the house's own rules and "things the house does by itself", which are your Nursery Automations scoped to the household.


For couples who live togetherโ€‹

Six things for a shared home. They are on the first screen when they apply and behind the showcase button when they do not.

Away and homeโ€‹

One tap when you leave the house and one when you are back. Both of you see it.

Big and little, and always littleโ€‹

A gentle big-or-little toggle for the day. It extends vacation mode rather than fighting it, so it never clobbers a real holiday. Couples who live that way full time can set a plain "always little" statement instead.

House choresโ€‹

The jobs the house needs, split between both people. They are kept deliberately separate from the personal chore system. A missed bin day never fires anyone's consequence queue and never touches a personal chore streak.

The supply shelfโ€‹

A shared shelf of what has run out and who is getting it. It reconciles from your gear and stock, so the low-stock flags in the Diaper Bag, the tracker and the Companion finally agree.

Repairโ€‹

A private way for a couple to come back together after something went wrong. Each of you answers alone. Nothing reveals until both have submitted. The notifications carry no text, so a lock screen shows nothing. It earns no points and no XP, on purpose.

The Sunday sit-downโ€‹

A weekly ten minutes to name what worked, what did not, and one thing to change. It counts no streak, so it never becomes an obligation.


Account-abili-babiesโ€‹

Two littles link the way a caregiver and a little do, and each sets the other's rules, chores, daily schedule and diaper checks. Both directions at once. Neither is the caregiver. Both are.

Pairingโ€‹

It rides the same pairing code flow a caregiver link uses. There is no second linking system. One of you makes a buddy code, the other types it in.

The pact card shows each person's own switches, both sides visible. What your buddy may do to you is granted by you. A lopsided pact, where one of you has said yes to everything and the other to nothing, is on the screen rather than hidden.

Caregiver beats buddyโ€‹

You can have both a caregiver and an Account-abili-baby. A caregiver's rule always wins on the same subject. A buddy may add rules the caregiver has not spoken about, never override one.

Either can leaveโ€‹

Either of you can end it alone. It ends 24 hours after notice is given and the other person is told straight away. Only the one who gave notice can take it back. Nobody is trapped in a dynamic with someone, and nobody can rage-quit at two in the morning to dodge a rule they agreed to. If you need it stopped this second, the safeword still pages everyone linked to you.

Diaper checks between buddiesโ€‹

They use the same check machinery a caregiver uses. Skipping a check clears it on the server, so it does not come back.

โ›” Real members only

An Account-abili-baby is a real person with a real account. Nobody here is simulated and nobody ever will be.