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Moderation & Safety

The Community is built to be a safe, welcoming place. Here are the tools that keep it that way.

The Safety Center​

  • 🆘 Panic button — one tap instantly covers the app with a blank privacy screen, so you can hide what's on your screen at a moment's notice.
  • Report — flag any post, comment, or user for the moderators to review.
  • Block list — see everyone you've blocked and unblock them here.

Reporting & Blocking​

You can report content from the post or comment menu, and block a user from their profile or a DM thread. Blocked users can't message you. All reports go to the mod team's queue.

Diaper Checks in the Community​

Littles can opt in to community diaper checks. You may receive a check ping (from your caregiver or from a community-wide check), and you report wet/messy levels on a 0–5 scale. You can optionally share the result publicly, which updates your live status. Your check history for the last 14 days appears in Settings.

Community leads can broadcast a check to everyone who has opted in, or schedule one for a specific time. Participation is always opt-in.

The Mod Team​

Moderators have a dedicated panel for keeping things healthy, including:

  • Reports — review pending, resolved, and dismissed reports
  • Care — respond to gentle check-in requests from members who are struggling (send a hug and notify)
  • Challenges — manage the challenge queue and approve community suggestions
  • Highlights — feature great posts on the home carousel

Mods can also remove, lock, pin, or re-file posts, and issue time-limited bans with a reason when needed.

Punishments Board​

The Punishments Board is an opt-in space where littles and caregivers can voluntarily post an active punishment (like "grounded 3 days"). It's filterable by type and severity, and the poster can mark it done. It's entirely voluntary and meant for accountability and sharing.