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Safety, checks and punishments

For littles

If something makes you feel bad, tap 🚩 Report or 🤗 Need Support? A moderator will help. To hide the screen fast, open the Safety Center and tap Hide now.

Safety Center​

🛟 Safety Center has three tools:

  • 🙈 Panic — hide everything: tap Hide now to cover the Nursery with a plain privacy screen. Tap the screen to show it again. The setting is remembered.
  • 🚩 Report something: how reporting works.
  • 🚫 Blocked members: everyone you have blocked, with Unblock buttons.

Report a post or member​

  1. Tap 🚩 Report on the post, or on the member's profile.
  2. Choose a reason. For posts, reasons include Appears to involve a minor, nudity or untagged explicit content, off-topic, harassment, spam and fake content. For members, reasons include I think this user is under 18, predatory or grooming behavior, harassment, ban evasion, doxxing and spam.
  3. Tap Submit Report.

Reports go to the moderators. A member with several open reports is flagged for review automatically.

Need Support?​

Tap 🤗 Need Support? in the sidebar (or The Toy Box on a phone). Choose Feeling little & overwhelmed, Had a bad interaction, Just need a gentle check-in or Something else. A moderator from the care team will reach out.

Diaper checks​

🧷 Diaper Checks under Checks:

  • 🧷 Check myself to log your own check.
  • 📨 Waiting on you lists checks others sent you. Tap Check my diaper, choose 💧 Wet and/or 💩 Messy, and tap Respond 🧷.
  • ✅ Recent and 📤 Checks you sent show history.
  • 🌍 Community Diaper Checks and 🧷 Scheduled check group (tap + Join group) are community-wide checks.

To receive checks from other members, turn on Let others send me diaper checks in Settings. Share my check results publicly updates your Live status. Settings also offers daily 8 AM and 8 PM reminders and your last 14 days of checks.

My Caregiving​

💛 My Caregiving shows what your linked caregiver sent you from the Watch Tower: 📋 My Tasks to tick off and 💛 Praise.

Punishment Board​

Punishment Board 😳 is an opt-in space to share an active punishment for accountability.

  1. Tap + Post Mine.
  2. Choose a type (Grounding, Spanking, Lines Writing, No Screen Time, Corner Time, Early Bedtime, Loss of Privileges or Other) and a severity (Minor, Moderate, Serious or Severe).
  3. Post it, and mark it done when it is over.

The moderators​

Moderators review reports, answer support requests, run challenges, feature posts on the home carousel and approve in-person events. They can remove, lock or pin posts and give time-limited or permanent bans.

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