Members & Adoption
The Members area is where you meet people — browse the directory, find a caregiver or little, read profiles, and connect with mentors.
Members Directory
The directory has three tabs:
Browse
A searchable grid of all members. Filter by role and location preference to find people near you or with a matching dynamic.
Little Adoption
Cards for littles who are looking for a caregiver. Each card can show their status (Looking, Adopted, or Paused), personality tags, regression level, diaper preference, and enforcement style. Tap Request Adoption to send a request.
Caregiver Hunt
The mirror of adoption — caregivers seeking littles. Cards show their caregiving style, how many littles they can take, and the traits they're looking for. Tap Request to reach out.
Adoption and caregiver requests are a starting point for a conversation, not a commitment. Always get to know someone before sharing personal details.
Member Profiles
Open anyone's profile (at /u/username) to see what they've chosen to share: display name, pronouns, bio, social links, karma tier, role badge, location, and dynamic badges (dynamic type, regression, age range, diaper preference). If they're paired with a partner, you'll see the link and an anniversary badge. Profiles can also show a pinned post (a Pro perk), awarded badges, a trust/vouch section, current streak, and recent posts.
My Care
My Care is a personalized feed for littles. It collects the gold stars, tasks, and praise your caregiver has sent you. Tasks have a checkbox so you can mark them done, and everything is sorted newest-first.
Mentors
The Mentors area pairs newer littles with experienced, verified members. Littles can browse mentor blurbs and request a pairing; mentors opt in with an intro blurb. The page shows pending requests and active pairings.
Swap Board
The Swap Board is a gear marketplace where members list ABDL gear to buy, sell, trade, or give away free. Filter by item type, price type, and condition. Listings show the seller's rating and review count. You can wishlist items, make a trade offer, or DM the seller, and sellers can bump a listing to the top once a week.