The pockets and tools

The Bag is sorted into eleven pockets. A tool marked 💾 saves to your account and needs you to be signed in; everything else works signed out.

🍼For littles

Pick a pocket, then pick a tool. The Fun pocket has quizzes, printables and the Littlespeak Translator.

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👛 Money

What things cost, the bills, and the grown-up admin.

Tool	What it does
Cost Per Diaper	Compare brands by what one actually costs, not the sticker price
Cloth vs Disposable	Upfront cost plus laundry, against buying disposables at your rate
Monthly Budget 💾	What this lifestyle costs you a month, in one honest number
Supply Stretcher	Money's tight this month: how to make what you have last
Savings Jar 💾	Save up for the big thing, with a jar that fills as you go
Shop Trust Checker	Is this store real? Known-good sellers and the usual scam tells
Used-Gear Guide	Buying secondhand safely: what's fine used, what never is
Who Pays For What	Splitting the cost of a dynamic fairly when you don't earn the same
Gift Guide	What to buy them, by occasion and budget, with their sizes attached
Grown-Up Things 💾	Bills, appointments and calls. This list now lives in Grown-Up Help on the main site, which adds reminders and medication and lets you choose what your caregiver sees. The tool shows Open Grown-Up Help →, and your list comes with you the first time you open it there
Purchase Rules 💾	What you can buy freely, what you ask about first, and what isn't yours to decide
Supply Calculator 💾	How much you actually get through in a week and a month

🧷 Gear

Fit, absorbency, stash and everything you wear.

Tool	What it does
Find My Product	Tell it what matters and it tells you what to buy, with the reasoning shown
Fit Finder	Your measurements in, brand sizes out
Size Converter	Translate one brand's sizes into another's
First-Padding Wizard	Never bought anything before? A starter kit for your budget
Leak & Night Fixer	Walk through why it leaked, and what to change tonight
Stash & Restock Radar 💾	What you have, how fast it goes, and when to reorder
Cloth Wash Wizard	Your water, machine and detergent turned into a wash routine that works
Absorbency Lab	Real capacity tests from members, against the marketing claims (community)
DIY & Crafts Corner	Patterns, paci clips, repairs and dyeing. Remembers your materials when signed in
Brand Database	Every brand side by side: sizes, capacity, backing, price, where to buy
Real Fit Data	What actually fits people your size, from people your size (community)
Overnight Setup	Sleeping through safely: the whole bed, not just the product
Stain & Laundry Rescue	It got on the sheets. What to do, in what order
Gear Guide	Things widely agreed to be good. Nothing sponsored

🗺️ Out & About

Living your life outside the house.

Tool	What it does
Pack My Bag 💾	Where you're going and for how long, turned into exactly what to bring. Pack for yourself or for your little, add your own items, and save trips you take often
Discreet Changes	Finding somewhere to change when you're out, without the panic
Change Map 💾	Real places near a town or near you with an adult bench, an accessible toilet or a private room, plus member ratings
Travel & Borders	Flying and crossing borders with a bag full of gear
Con & Event Prep	First con? Countdown, packing, budget and survival notes
Munch Starter Kit	How to host your town's first munch. Remembers your plan when signed in
Crinkle & Visibility Test	How loud and how obvious it is under clothes, per fabric and outfit
What Ships To Me	Which shops deliver to your country, how long, and customs quirks

💙 Feelings

The hard days, and the good ones.

Tool	What it does
The Lighthouse 💾	About to purge everything? Put it in the vault for 72 hours first, then decide: I'm keeping it 💛 or I let it go
Session Planner	Three free hours and no idea what to do with them
Feelings Translator	Turn a feeling you can't word into something you can send
Little Firsts 💾	A keepsake list of your firsts, with dates
Big Kid Work Timer	Focus sessions that pay out in little time
Needs Cards	Too little for words? Tap a card and hold up your phone
How I'm Doing 💾	Score yourself privately against your own rules. Nobody else sees it
A Hard Minute 💾	Breathing, something true to read, and somewhere to put the feeling down

🛡️ Safety

Staying safe, private and understood.

Tool	What it does
Vet a Stranger	Meeting someone from online? Work through this first
Digital Footprint	Keeping your little life separate from your everyday one online
Discretion Audit	Walk your space and score how discoverable your setup is
Safe Share Studio	Strip location data and blur faces before you post. Your photo never leaves your device
Know Your Rights	Plain-language notes on therapy privacy, work, housing and borders
The Directory	Kink-aware therapists and doctors, and how to bring it up (community)
Share With My Person 💾	A private link to your card or list. See Sharing
My Care Card 💾	Everything someone needs to know about you, including your safeword and hard limits, on one printable card
What To Say	Borrowable words for telling a partner, a doctor, a roommate, or nobody
Vetting a Caregiver	What they need to have, when to walk away, and what to ask

🍼 Feeding

Bottles, meals, and what's in the cupboard.

Tool	What it does
Formula Math 💾	Scoops per bottle, per day, per week, and roughly how many tins
Meal Plan 💾	A week of meals in one grid, with a shopping list made from it
Grocery List 💾	A tick-list of everything a little household runs out of
Lifestyle Log 💾	Feeds, nursery supplies and a daily rhythm, kept to yourself

🎨 Fun

The soft, silly, lovely bits.

Tool	What it does
Little Persona Builder 💾	Name, age, comfort item: a card that's all about you
Nursery Room Planner	Plan a little space on a real budget, with a shopping list
Printables Studio	Reward charts, certificates and coloring pages to print
Glossary	Every bit of jargon, explained
Which Diaper Are You?	A silly quiz with a cute card at the end
Littlespeak Translator	Grown-up words into little words, and back
Am I Normal?	The question everyone has, answered with real numbers from the Big Survey
Little Year Planner	Community dates, your little-versaries, and seasonal ideas
Little Space 💾	What takes you there, what to put on, and how far down you got

🎒 My Bag

Tool	What it does
My Bag 💾	Your sizes, brands and habits, filled in once and used by every tool. See My Bag

🧸 Caregiver

For the person doing the looking after. (Anyone can open it.)

Tool	What it does
How To Change Someone	Step by step, with positions
Reading Their Signals	They've gone quiet, clingy or snappy: what it might mean and what to try
Babysitter Handover 💾	A printable sheet for whoever's watching them while you're out, including the safeword. Shareable by link
When To Actually Worry	What's normal, what's worth watching, and what needs a doctor today
When It Goes Wrong	Ran out, got found out, bad rash, hard day: one screen, big steps

🩹 Body

Skin, health, and the medical side.

Tool	What it does
Rash Triage	What kind of rash it is, what helps, and when it's a doctor's job
Skin Care Routine	Prevent the rash instead of treating it
Medically Incontinent	Prescriptions, insurance, continence nurses, and being both at once
Materials & Allergies	Latex, fragrance, adhesives, dyes: what to avoid
Hygiene Log 💾	When you last bathed, did your nails or put cream on. No streaks, no scores
Rash & Brand Log 💾	How your skin is doing and which brands it likes
Doctor Prep 💾	Write it down before you go in, and decide how much to say
Bath & Skin Routines	Bath time and face care step by step, with timers

🩺 Continence Care

A bladder diary, a report for your doctor, and your supply receipts. Everything here is private to you.

Tool	What it does
Bladder Diary 💾	Toilet trips, leaks and urges, with what caused them. Patterns show up by themselves, and it reads the drinks you already log on the main site
Doctor Report 💾	Your diary as a plain, printable record to take to an appointment
Supply Receipts 💾	Log what you buy for HSA/FSA claims or insurance, and export it as a CSV file

The pocket page also links to related tools in other pockets, like Medically Incontinent, Doctor Prep and Real Fit Data.

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Community tools

Absorbency Lab, Real Fit Data and The Directory are built from member submissions. Anyone can read them. To add yours, sign in and use Submit for checking. Every submission is checked by hand before it appears, and the tool shows you how many of yours are waiting to be checked ⏳, or a note if one wasn't published.