Us: aftercare for linked pairs
Us is the clinic's room for the two of you. After a scene or any intense moment, either partner logs it. You both get a short aftercare checklist, and each of you can privately note how the aftercare felt.
To use Us, you need to be linked with your caregiver or little on the main site. If you aren't linked yet, the page shows a link to the main site's Connect page.
The Us room is gentle peer and lifestyle care between consenting adults. It's not medical, legal, or mental-health advice, and the trends are simple estimates, never a diagnosis.
Choose your partner
If you're linked with more than one person, tap the partner's name at the top. Each pair has its own history.
Log a scene or intense moment
- Open Us from the clinic menu.
- Open We had a scene / intense moment.
- Set when it happened.
- Choose how intense it was, from "a gentle one" to "all the way down."
- Add a short note if you like.
- Tap log it for you & your partner's name.
You both get the aftercare checklist right away.
Work through the aftercare checklist
The checklist has four items:
- Cuddles & closeness: blankets, being held, staying near.
- Water & a little snack: gentle sips and something soft to nibble.
- Reassurance & sweet words: "You're safe. You did so well. I've got you."
- A soft debrief: what felt lovely, and anything to hold more gently next time.
Each of you ticks off your own checklist.
Note privately how aftercare landed
For each moment, you can rate how the aftercare landed for you from 1 to 5 and add a private note. Tap save privately.
Only you see your rating and note. Your partner sees a gentle arrow instead of numbers: "landing warmer lately," "steady & held," "could use extra tending," or "not enough shared yet." You see the same kind of arrow for them.
Read your shared history
The shared history lists each logged moment, who logged it, and how aftercare went:
| Mark | Meaning |
|---|---|
| ⏳ | Freshly logged, and the checklist is waiting for you both |
| ◐ | One of you has done aftercare, and the other checklist is still open |
| ✓ | You both did aftercare |
| ✗ | No aftercare was logged within a day |
If aftercare keeps getting missed, the page shows a gentle note suggesting you talk, with a link to the main site's Repair Flow.
Remove a moment logged by mistake
Tap logged by mistake? remove it on a moment and confirm. This removes it for both of you.
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